How does one succeed in life?

Ask yourself:

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What are the advantages of forming strategic partnerships?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

If you are a programmer using an AI LLM to help you code, are you finding it speeding you up or slowing you down? What impact has it had on your programming?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Shouldn’t there be a short porn platform like TikTok?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

So who has worn a cock cage. One of my guy FWBs put one on me last Sunday and left with the keys? I was very nervous at first but have calmed down. Told me he'll unlock it tomorrow.. Let me know.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What I need from you?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What's the most sordid activity you've ever seen or heard about at a bachelorette party?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How do I change a truck’s engine oil?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

That's it for today.